Monday, 14 March 2016

University!

You had to have the best marks in the country to go to a Kenyan University. There weren't a lot of them at the time and not enough spots for the students wanting to attend.  My big dream had always been to go to University. I remember doing the American TOEFL (Test of English as a
Foreign Language) and SAT after Form 4 and writing to lots of American universities to get information about their universities, even though it would have been way beyond what we could afford. So, when we came to Canada, I worked for a year and then started finding out how I could go to University.  My guidance counsellor, Frank, at York was amazing. He told me to apply as a mature student. I was surprised how easy it was to get into University as a mature student. All they needed was my transcripts from High School and a writing sample.

I applied to York University in Toronto for general courses towards a business program. It just seemed the easiest thing to do since I didn't really know what I wanted to study.  

1990 - York

I started University in September 1990 as a Mature student. I was 24 years old. The first courses I took were Economics, French, Math, Communications and one other course I can't remember.

I had always pictured University to be like in the movies, so much fun!  But York was not that! It was probably because I commuted and it was a long commute each way. Not to mention changing several buses in the winter when it was snowing and miserable! I didn't like the commute and I didn't like the fact that you didn't really get to know people because just about the entire 50,000 student population was commuting!

My friend Pauline from Nairobi was also going to York as a Foreign Student (she now lives in Kampala).

There were two good things that came out of going to York;

1) I took a basic French Course where I learned about a French exchange program in Quebec and
2) I quite by accident walked into a lecture theatre where they were talking about the University of Waterloo and its Geography and Environmental Studies program. 

I applied and got into both for which I am very grateful!

1991 - Waterloo

My Waterloo Student ID was 91200703! I remember that ID to this day, I have no idea why!
I went to Waterloo to study Geography. It was never something I had thought about studying because as an Indian, you don't think about fields like Geography or History... but I loved it. As Geography was part of the Faculty of Environmental Studies, I started taking environmental courses and realized I really liked these courses, so I decided to do a double major in Geography and Environmental Studies.

My first year I lived on Thorncrest Drive. It was a residential area on the north end of University. We lived in a house and each of us had our own room. My roommates were Zahra Ahamed from Nairobi and Saira Kanani from Toronto. I knew Zahra from Nairobi but we got to know each other well over that first year. The 2nd semester Saira left and we had a woman who wasn't a student as our room mate.
To get to university in the Winter, you had to dress in every piece of wool clothing you owned and had to fight winds and blowing snow and trek through corn fields to get to your classes!
Down the road from us lived Ashifa Hasham (Fish!), Ashifa Esmail and Salima Rattansi.
There was great camaraderie between the Ismaili students. We had evening prayers on campus and got rides from students with cars to the local jamatkhana (mosque) in Kitchener on Fridays. You could even get a ride to go for early morning prayers if you wanted (4-5 am). The Kitchener Ismaili community looked forward to getting new students every Fall.

1992 - Waterloo

In 2nd Year, I lived on Blue Springs Drive off of King Street with Hafsa Esmail and Laila Saleh. It was a fancy new condo and we had two bedrooms. I shared a room with Hafsa. I got to know Hafsa who was studying Business at Laurier and her sister, Fatima who was in Engineering over that year and we became good friends.

Fayyaz Vellani and Rishma, started in the Environmental Studies Program that year.

1993 - Waterloo

In 3rd Year, I lived in the Married Student Apartment (MSA) across from the University on University Avenue. Shelina Khalfan who went to school with my sisters in Nairobi and was now at the School of Optometry, was my room mate. This was the year that I became Kamadiani (lead at campus mosque) with Sadiq Adatia who was Mukhi. This meant going to jamatkhana and setting it up every day. At the time it was in a room at the Student Centre where the Bombshelter is. It was quick and a way for students to come and say a prayer between dinner and classes or studying (or partying!)

1994 - Waterloo

In 4th Year, I lived with Ashifa Hasham from Ottawa who was studying science and Salima Samji from Nairobi who was studying Actuarial Science. We lived in a walk out basement of a house at the north end of school, close to Erb and Westmount. I stayed in school that summer, so we were in that house for the entire year.

1995 - Waterloo











Saturday, 12 March 2016

Friday, 11 March 2016

Thursday, 10 March 2016

My First Job!

Right after High School, I got a job at a place called "Hotel Secretaries".  It was located in town righ next to the New Stanley Hotel on Kenyatta Avenue. Don't know where the name came from, but it was an office that had much going on. The part I worked at was a rental for vacation homes along the coast; Mombasa, Diani Beach, Kilifi, Watamu, Malindi, Lamu.  The office was also a temp agency and organized Balloon Safaris. I always wanted to go on one, but one balloon safari cost as much as my monthly salary... 3,000 kenyan shillings! With the current rate, that would be $39 Canadian dollars (US $29)! I just looked up what a Balloon safari costs now and it's $450! Should have broken the bank and gone then!

Inbetween my work at Hotel Secretaries, I got a two month stint working at Newsweek which was just down the road also on Kenyatta Avenue, closer to 680 Hotel. It was a local bureau office and I worked for the the bureau chief, Ray Wilkinson (I looked up the office and Ray is still the bureau chief 30 years later!) It was a fun job. The first thing I did when I got to work was to go through the evening before's newswire... reams and reams of paper coming out of this machine with news and I'd have to highlight any interesting news for the bureau chief!

I then decided I should take up accounting and so got a job as a bookkeeper at a company called C.G. Punjani on Kijabe Street. In the evening I'd go for accounting classes to Strathmore College (the sister school to my high school, Kianda). Don't know what possessed me to do accounting, I didn't like it! The office was great fun to work at though. We had Tito and Christopher who were cricket players on the Aga Khan team, Mr. and Mrs. Manji a husband and wife team, Rahim, who had recently moved to Nairobi from India and was a hoot!, Sherali, the main accountant and our boss, Janice, one of the main accountants (went to her wedding), Sangita (the receptionist), Kamalu, the salesman boss and Tajdin Nanji, of the Nanji family that owned the company. We'd get Indian tea twice a day and we'd order the most delicious pastries from a bakery down the road close to Norfolk Hotel. Often at lunch time, I'd walk to our 'Khoja' mosque that was in the centre of town and hang out at the library reading 'Woman' and 'Woman's Own'! I learned to thread the hair from my face in those Khoja mosque bathrooms!

Wednesday, 9 March 2016

The 80s - Music Doesn't Get Any Better Than This For Me!



Oh how good it was to grow up in the 80s! And especially when Madonna came along... here was this new superstar who dressed sassy with her floppy hair bows, low hanging belts, stacked bracelets, off-shouldered tops and we wanted to look just like her! And these songs from the 80s were all amazing, they still bring back such good memories and make me want to get up and dance; Lucky Star, Holiday, True Blue, Borderline, Like a Virgin, Material Girl, Dress You Up, Papa Don't Preach, Live to Tell, La Isla Bonita, Open Your Heart, Crazy For You, Who's That Girl, Into the Groove, Like a Prayer, Express Yourself and Cherish.


In Kenya we were exposed to more English music than we were American and we loved the English bands including Duran Duran, Depeche Mode, Human League, New Order, Culture Club, Tears for Fears, The Police, Bananarama, Dire Straits, Pet Shop Boys (saw them in concert in the 90s - they were amazing!), Wham, Frankie Goes to Hollywood, Spandau Ballet, Eurythmics, Kajagoogoo, Rod Stewart, Paul Young, Morrissey, Kylie Minogue, Rick Astley, Adam Ant, Sheena Easton, Nik Kershaw!


Then there was Band Aid in 1984. The group of 40 singers who came together to sing for famine relief in Ethiopia to sing "Do They Know It's Christmas?". Living in Kenya, we were neighbours of Ethiopia and I have to say that we were pretty ignorant. I don't know if we were kids and didn't know about the famine, but till Band Aid created the awareness, we had no idea about the plight of the people in Ethiopia!



One of the ways we got to see and hear American music was through Solid Gold, a show with hits of the week, musical performances by singers and a regular appearance with 'Madame', a very witty, fun, sharp-tongued puppet who dressed in evening gowns, furs and dripping in jewellery! These are some of the performances on Solid Gold that I still remember; Billy Ocean (Carribbean Queen), Kool and the Gang (Get Down On It), Smokey Robinson (I don't care), Laura Branigan (Gloria), Jennifer Rush (Power of Love), Anne Murray (Could I have this Dance?), Tiffany (I Think We're Alone Now), Gloria Estefan and the Miami Sound Machine (Conga), Stevie Wonder (Part Time Lover), The Bangles (Manic Monday), Whitney Houston (How Will I know?), Janet Jackson (What Have You Done for me lately?), The Commodores (Nightshift), De Barge (Rythm of the Night), Bryan Adams (Straight for the Heart) and so many more!!




You can't talk about the 80s and not talk about Break Dance. I watch break dance now and still don't know how all the break dancers did all those contortions without hurting themselves. This clip is from the Breakin' and is filled with break dancing;  There's No Stopping Us - Ollie & Jerry

In the 80s, we were listening to music on tapes and walkmans were the in-thing. A friend of ours, Amyn Sidi came from Canada and brought a gold walkman that he gave us and we were on Cloud 9! We'd also have terrible recordings because we'd either record from the radio or record between tape recorders!

The main Dance Clubs in Nairobi we went to in the 80s were Carnivore, Bubbles and Sailing Club, all great and all very different from each other.

I tried to keep this list to 50, but couldn't, so here are ABOUT 50 of my favourite 80s songs;

It might be you – Steven Bishop
Everytime you go away – Paul Young
Total Eclipse of the Heart / Holding out for a Hero –  Bonnie Tyler
Hotel California - Eagles
Bohemian Rhapsody – Queen
I would do anything for Love - Meatloaf
If I could turn back time – Cher
Dreams / Little Lies / Seven Wonders - Fleetwood Mac
Best that you can do (Arthur Theme) - Christopher Cross
If you leave me now / Everybody needs a little time away – Chicago
Final Countdown - Europe
Buffalo Soldier - Bob Marley
Girls Just Wanna Have Fun - Cyndi Lauper
Every Breath You Take - The Police
Billie Jean / Beat It - Michael Jackson
Sweet Dreams / Here Comes the Rain Again - Eurythmics
Take On Me - A-Ha
Come On Eileen - Too Rye Ay
Wake Me Up Before you Go-Go / Careless Whispers - Wham
Don't Stop Believin - Journey
I Wanna Dance with Somebody - Whitney Houston
Lady in Red - Chris De Burgh
Power of Love - Jennifer Rush
Walk Like An Egyptian - The Bangles
Bizarre Love Triangle (Everytime I see you falling) - New Order
Eye of the Tiger - Survivor
Let's Dance - David Bowie
Summer of '69 - Bryan Adams
Bohemian Rhapsody - Queen
Jack and Diane - John Mellencamp
Karma Chameleon - Culture Club
All Night Long / Hello - Lionel Richie
Tainted Love - Soft Cell
Like a Virgin / Holiday / Into the Groove - Madonna
Do That To Me One more time - Captain and Tenille
The Tide is High - Blondie
Bette Davis Eyes - Kim Carnes
Don't You Want Me - Human League
Who Can it Be Now - Men At Work
We Are the World - USA for Africa
Money for Nothing - Dire Straits
All Night Long - Lionel Richie
Part Time Lover - Stevie Wonder
West End Girls - Pet Shop Boys
Red Red Wine - UB40
Lean on Me - Club Nouveau
Never Gonna Give you Up / Together Forever - Rick Astley
She Drive Me Crazy - Fine Young Cannibals
Wind Beneath My Wings - Bette Midler
Everything by Air Supply!!! (I saw them in a small concert venue a couple of years ago. I was disappointed with their cheesy images, but their songs were still great!) 
All Out Of Love / Lost In Love / Making Love out of Nothing At All / Here I Am / Even The Night are Better / Every Woman in the World - Air Supply

Believe in The Beat - Carol Lynn Townes (Song in movie Electric Bugaloo) - The video is so 80s
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mMIldmPI9Wk 


Billboard's #1 Hits of the 80s

We had a little old fashioned radio in Nairobi and it was always on on Voice of Kenya (VOK) radio. They played a lot of country songs and these are those country songs I grew up with and love;

Rose Garden – Lynn Anderson
Tie a Yellow Ribbon Round the Old Oak Tree
Those Were The Days My Friend
Rhinestone Cowboy – Glenn Campbell
Coward of the County – Kenny Rogers
River Road - Crystal Gayle
Sweet Caroline / Song Song Blue – Neil Diamond
Hello Marylou
Top of the World – Carpenters
Country Roads – John Denvor
You’re so vain – Carly Simon
Just when I needed you most – Randy Vanwarmer


And Finally here a Kool and the Gang from the 80s 'Celebrating'

Thank you sharing Day 19 of 50 with me!